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The First Day of School #BTS #Inclusion

September 1, 2016

This post could have two titles:

On the First Day of School or

The Power of One

Okay, I know that nothing is final until September 30th and not to count your eggs before they’ve hatched BUT today, I felt an ounce of victory. If you read my last post, you will know that our school situation has been anything but easy or straight forward. It would seem that every year we go to battle with the school administration to get Ella enough support. This year was no different. Simply put, they wanted to put Ella in the grade one class with two other kids who should technically be in grade two. The principal was clear that “I have the authority to do this under the Education Act”. The administration gave me the impression that if I did put her in the grade two class there would be no support. So what is a parent to do? I felt backed into a corner. When the principal called to inform me of the plan yesterday, I cowardly said, “okay”. What else could I say? I felt sick. It just did not sit right with me for so many reasons, which I won’t get into here. After choking back tears, I decided that there would be no more nice-diplomatic-Krista. It was time to take a stand and I let my mama-bear instinct was take over.

I went straight to the school, three kids in tow. I told the principal I was not happy with their decision and I did not feel right about it and my suspicion was that the other parents of those other two children didn’t feel right about it either. What I didn’t say was that I felt like I had been manipulated.

I told her that when Ella arrived at school on the first day, she would go into the grade two classroom. If that meant pulling her out for language art to be with children of the same ability, great, but she would be on the grade two roster. Period. I told her that I would continue to fight for more support for that school because Ella is not the only one loosing out when there is no EA support, or not enough.

As much as I talk big in this space, I more than often, am a coward in person, sometimes even a push-over. I was proud that I took a stand but at the same time, was a nervous wreck. I wondered if the principal would underhand me and put Ella in the grade one class anyway. In which case, I was prepared to march Ella into the grade two class and announce in front of the teacher, all the kids and the parents that THIS was Ella’s class.

When we arrived this morning, thankfully, I did not have to do that. There was a desk with Ella’s name on it in the grade two classroom. The teacher was sure to mention that she only heard about the change at 6pm the night before, but I let roll off my back.

Later, as I left school, I noted that I did not see any of the grade two students go into that grade one classroom AND that there was EA in the grade two class ready to greet Ella. I don’t know the details of what administration can or can’t do, or what went through our principal’s head but even if it is just for this day, it warms my heart to think that possibly my actions, benefited not just Ella, but those other two students that were to be segregated and relegated to the grade one class.

As I say, I am sure that this is not the end of the story but for today, I will take the victory.

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As for Jakob, he was quite at home when he saw his friends. I am praying for a better year than last for him.

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3 Comments


Sonja
September 1, 2016 at 11:42 am
Reply

It really stinks that you have to fight so hard for Ella, it should be so simple. I’m glad she’s in her grade 2 classroom and I pray for one amazing year ahead for not just Ella but Jakob as well.



Cindy Anderson
September 1, 2016 at 8:06 pm
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Well done Krista! I hope every day from here on out holds a victory for Ella!



Teacher
September 23, 2016 at 9:17 pm
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The lack of inclusion is your children’s school leaves me speechless. I teach grade one in Manitoba and find is startling to see how the differences in our educational systems vary so much province to province. I attended a conference in Edmonton a few years back and remember being surprised to hear about the reality Alberta teacher’s faced in their classrooms back then, especially the huge class sizes and lack of resources. I had a student in my grade one class a few years ago and she brought a lot to our classroom. It was wonderful to see the students rally around her successes and to see how much she opened their hearts and minds. Luckily, she had EA time to give her the support she needed. It was definitely a positive experience for all. Keep being the voice your daughter needs you to be!



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    Strategic communicator and storyteller.

    I am the wife of a very talented musician who takes me around the world in pursuit of excellence. Mama to Jakob, Audrey and Ella, who just happens to have Down Syndrome.
    And an aspiring disciple of Jesus, defender of the oppressed, writer, graphic designer and photographer.

    I write and speak on navigating through the fog of life…you know, when things don’t go exactly as planned and am fuelled by a passion to amplify the voices of those on the margins…
    oh, and coffee…lots of coffee.

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