There is no lack of beautiful things to share which means that when I actually do post it is a fragmented reflection of my week carelessly strung together.
I won't lie - this week has been tough. My joie de vive took a little hiatus leaving me weary. The uncertainty is certainly wearing on me and it is tough to figure out what each day is about. I know that sounds ridiculous as I am privileged to have this year to just be a mom but sometimes even moms get tired. Ben had his written exam today which meant that for the last little while study has taken the front burner. And while the sun has been warm I have had trouble seeing the beauty in each day, knowing that soon it will all come to an end...and there is nothing to follow. It's all nonsense really. Many of you are probably vehemently question my attitude but it is just that: an attitude that I need to conquer.
Food helps.
With the heat, Jakob's eczema flared up to the point where I picked him up from school and he looked awful. Red peely eyes, blotchy red patches on his pale soft skin and the back of his knees completely raw from the itching. In the past, we found taking gluten and dairy out of his diet cleared it up quite nicely and quickly noting that it is probably caused by a sensitivity one of these things. We also recognized however, that the pain of a few small dry patches were less painful than being refused an ice cream cone when everyone else had one, so while we limit these things we don't eliminate them on a regular basis. Instead we keep it like a card in our back pocket for times such as these. All this to say, this week, we have been gluten and dairy free and I thought I would share some of our favourite recipes with you.
Spaghetti: a twist on the old staple
I use this dish to clear out my veg drawer. Whatever I have goes in and the kids have no idea and eat it up enthusiastically. This week, I grilled up some ground beef then added half a red onion, a few cloves of garlic, one grated zucchini, half a red pepper and some cherry tomatoes. Once the veggies are tender I infuse it with a small jar of good tomato basil spaghetti sauces and simmer. It is then served over gluten free noodles and served with salad....oh and maybe a nice glass of red?
Other items that are great in spaghetti: broccoli, cauliflower, mushrooms, I have even put kale.
Confession - I plan meals based on what I have in my fridge so that I don't have to go to the store. As I have mentioned before I get an organic fruit and veg box each week. I don't pick the items, I just get whatever is in season. Also, I am completely lazy and the thought of taking the kids to the grocery store on the way home is exhausting, so I will make whatever I can with whatever I have. Yesterday, it was butternut squash. Jakob knows he does not like squash so dinner started out with a typical fight,
"I don't like it!" (he hadn't tried it - he just knew it was squash).
"That's fine, then go to bed." (no comment on my parenting skills)
"NOOOOEEEEEWWWWW!"
"Fine, then eat it."
.....
"Oh, I like it."
Sigh.
So here is how it's done.
Toast your cumin seeds in few glugs of veg oil until they are fragrant
Add onion and garlic and sautee until the onion starts to become translucent
Add curry powder and turmeric and let fry a little longer (this takes the bitterness out of the spices)
Add about a cup of canned chopped tomatoes and a small butternut squash cubed without the squishy bits in the middle.
At this point you can add a bit of vegetable broth so that the squash is nicely covered in liquid.
Let simmer until the squash is tender then add coconut milk and cinnamon stick.
Bring to a simmer again and stir constantly for about 5 minutes.
To up the protein in this meal, I served it over quinoa (or as Jakob calls it - little yellow spheres). This dish can be served with yogurt but then it wouldn't be dairy free, now would it. We had it with some cilantro and lime and that was good too. Most importantly, both the kids loved it.
Tonight we had cornflake crusted chicken breast which was also a nice easy meal that the kids loved.
Simply season your chicken with salt and pepper, coat in a beaten egg and then cover in crushed corn flakes, bake.
I hope you are having a great weekend. This weekend is the Queen's Diamond Jubilee which I am quite looking forward to and then next week Jakob is off for half-term so I am sure I will have lots of stories to tell and photos to share....and hopefully the time to post them now that I have my husband back.
Are you doing anything to commemorate the Queen's 60 year reign?





6 comments:
Why would anyone question your emotions? That baffles me. I don't think they are something to conquer. We all have that feeling sometimes. It's nice to say it sometimes. I feel for you but I don't feel you should get over it. Stay in it for awhile and rest in the restlessness. It also teaches. Sounds like a bit of melancholy or light depression. The light will be even brighter when it comes because of this stage. All are part of the journey. Don't conquer what can't be controlled. Life sometimes is about letting go and allowing perceived weakness...which ironically makes us stronger. I know the sun will get bright for you soon tho until then it's ok. Allow yourself freedom to feel
Poor Jakob. My sister has massive eczema flare ups and I hurt for her. That is not fun. Yet he will remember the fun ice cream too. You are right..sometimes it's a trade off:)
Congrats to Ben for almost finishing. I hope plans come into being soon. You are doing better meal wise than me still- so don't worry about it:)
Loved the pics. great post. Of course people miss ur unique voice here:)
If your ever in need of an eczema treatment that works like a miracle let me know. Kyla has such Bad eczema that we got her into Dr. Remington in Calgary overnight. What he prescribed clears it up like a charm.
I really feel like people shouldn't have to apologize for how they are feeling. Own it, and when possible, move on from it, but it is what it is....love your recipes. I have had eczema since 4th grade. Dr. said milk. I had no milk from that point on. Eczema continued...had it pretty bad around my eyes (lovely to say the least) while getting a haircut the girl gave me a sample of creme 11 by yonka. Worked wonders. No idea what;s in it, botanicals is what it says...it works, I'm happy.
Just run with it - your mojo will return in good time. I know it's supposed to be 'exciting' to live overseas and experience new things, but you are still a mum, dealing with the needs of two little ones in a somewhat uncertain environment - understandable you are missing some joie de vivre.
The dishes you've created look delish! I'm all for using what we have - three kids under 4 at the shops = tiring chaos ;) I make a similar vegie curry (from the Jamie Oliver 30 Minute Meals book) which also has cauliflower in it. My eldest seems to be allergic to anything that looks like a vegetable, so I blend the curry and mix it through rice and they devour it!
Hope your mojo returns soon x
I am excited to try your squash and quinoa recipe it looks delicious! hard weeks aren't fun even if they seem necessary at times, here's hoping that this week brings joy.
Of course you're tired. Your a mom. THE most important job. Don't be too hard on yourself.
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